Here’s a test: play this for your wife. If she cries when she sees it, do you laugh? I did.
Now 5 minutes later, she’s still crying on the couch, and all I hear between sniffles is “the eyes…the cheeks.”
Am I a bad father and husband for having blacked out laughing at my wife? As she wept, I laughed so hard that I ran out of oxygen, hit the carpet, and re-woke, still laughing.